We are presented with choices every moment of our waking life, life is complicated, some of the choices we make, we make without giving them much thought at all, but deciding what is the right choice, what is right for you isn’t always easy, it requires courage. Today you have choices, tomorrow you will too, and next week, next month, next year, what you choose to do will have implications, it will impact the course of your life, it will impact the opportunities that present in your life, doing what is right for you is important, this is what you are meant to do.
When you are faced with a difficult decision, a complicated choice, when there is so much to consider, doing what is right for you isn’t always easy, knowing what is the right decision isn’t always clear and the implications may not be always apparent. When you are faced with a difficult decision it is challenging, deciding what is the right thing to do, what is right for you will need some contemplation. You will have a process, a way in which you make decisions where you instinctively know what to do, when you know yourself, when you trust yourself, when you trust your life, difficult decisions are easier to navigate. Somewhere within you, you hold all there is to know, somewhere within you, you do know what to do, this is the guidance is available to you in any situation. There is an energy associated with this guidance, it is helpful to recognise when something feels right, it is helpful to recognise what sits with you and this takes practise. Somewhere deep within you, you hold all the answers, this is a knowing that calls to you, it may whisper or it may haunt, but it is a truth and the answer you seek. If you look deeply you’ll see a sign, a message, a confirmation that you are on the right path, that you are making the right choice, this will give you the confidence to continue to do what is right for you, the signs, the messages, the confirmations are all there and all you have to do is see them.
Doing what is right for you isn’t always easy…
Sometimes situations arise that stop us in our tracks, that interrupt our flow, sometimes we are forced to contemplate a sacrifice, an impossible choice, when something has to give, this is a choice about worth. Will it be worth it, considering all the implications when faced with a choice about worth forces you to evaluate your priorities and this can be confronting because compromise is confronting. Compromising too much or too much of yourself has implications, going against your beliefs or what you believe about yourself, has implications, compromising too much leads to discontentment and regret. Being able to prioritise and knowing the importance of the decision you are faced with, will help you navigate your way through the choice you are making, when faced with a decision about worth, remember you too are worthy. You are worthy too, if you are sacrificing your ideals or undervaluing yourself, you won’t be of benefit to this situation, you don’t have to go against your beliefs, you can trust yourself because you are who you believe yourself to be and just have to have the courage to be it. When you are courageous in your choices, your courage empowers the belief you have in yourself, when you are courageous you empower others by the decisions you make, doing what is right for you is what it is right for everyone else too.
Being courageous and doing what is right for you is what you are meant to do, being aware of your intentions, having the best intentions when deciding what to do, is what you are meant to be doing. Being aware of what is motivating you when making choices is something to be conscious of and it takes courage to be honest about your intentions and motivations. Owning up to why you are doing what you are doing can be liberating, owning your motivations can also be confronting but it will help you know even more about yourself and make you more aware of how you truly feel about the choice you are making. If you are trying to manipulate a situation you may be acting out of insecurity because you don’t feel valued, if you are undervaluing yourself, how can you expect others to see your worth. All the energy you are putting into trying to manipulate could be channelled into believing in yourself, because you are who you believe yourself to be and if you confront this insecurity you will liberate yourself from it. Having the best intentions, being able to see the best in you, the greatness that is you, will help you believe in yourself and believe in what you are doing. Having the best intentions, believing in the greater good and seeing the best in others, will help you have faith in yourself. Having faith in yourself and faith in the situations you find yourself in, will help you feel capable, will help you tap into the greatness that is you, will help you achieve what you want to achieve without having to try and manipulate your way through life.
You are who you believe yourself to be…
You are worthy of owning who you are, you are worthy of doing what is right for you, you are worth of living your best life and when you do, you’ll find your way through anything life presents you with. Living your best life means making choices that are aligned with what you believe about you because you are who you believe yourself to be. If you do not believe in yourself, what you do will not be right for you and it will not be right for others as well. Believe in yourself and you’ll know what to do, believe in yourself and you’ll find what you are looking for, believe in yourself and you’ll be who you are meant to be.
Love life and life will love you back.
Mari.
