Doubting decisions, maybe regretting the decisions you have made, wondering why you’ve done what you’ve done, questioning why your life is like it is, you did what you have did because it was the right decision at the time. This is your life and your decisions are the right decisions to make at the time which is why you make them, but maybe what was right for you then is no longer right for you now. Regretting the decisions you have made won’t change them, what’s done is done but you do have the opportunity to do things differently now. We have all experienced moments of regret, moments where we wish we had done something different, what is important is what you do now.
In hindsight if you knew what you know now maybe you would have done things differently, maybe you would have taken a different path, but you’d still be you. You experience defining moments in life, moments that shape your life, even if you do define yourself by the choices you have made, you are still you and life will still present you with the opportunity to do things differently if you aren’t living your truth and being true to you. Your choices were the right choices at the time, if they are no longer true for you now, your life will present you with an opportunity to do something different and what is important is what you do now.
Each choice, each action, each direction you take, is all part of the journey that is your life and everything you have experienced is for the experience it gave you. Every choice is the right decision at the time, which is why you did what you did, it was right for you at the time, so stop beating yourself up, you didn’t make the wrong choice, you gained an experience. It may seem you are defined by what is happening but this is an opportunity for you to see the possibilities that exist around you now, you now have the opportunity for you to do things differently this time. This is an opportunity for you to reconnect with yourself, for you to re-evaluate where you are and what you are about, take a breath, give yourself a break. Stop beating yourself up and take a moment to think about what you are doing, think about what you want to create, think about what you really want happen, life is presenting you with an opportunity and what you do with it is up to you, what is important is what you do now.
Don’t get lost in circumstances, situations or relationships, remember what is important in your life, reconnect with what matters most to you. You are participating in this life, you are part of what happens here, everything you do matters, you are valuable and you make a difference. You can choose to do things differently and you can do your thing your way because only you are you and only you can be you, only you can do what you do the way you do it, what matters is what you do now.
Don’t be afraid to be you because who you are is who you are meant to be, and don’t be afraid to embrace what life presents you with because you are powerful and you can create a life you are happy living.
Don’t doubt yourself, only you are you and only you can be you, what matters isn’t what you have done, it is what you do now.
Love your life and life will love you back.
Mari.
