How do you know your “healthy boundary” is healthy, how do know when to stand your ground and walk your talk. Boundaries are healthy when you feel good about keeping them. Boundaries are healthy when you are protecting your vulnerabilities. Boundaries are healthy when you are aspiring to greatness.
Personal space is a physical boundary, it is your choice who you allow into your personal space.
Beliefs are mental boundaries, what you believe will align you with what matters most to you.
Feelings are emotional boundaries, your feelings become thoughts, your thoughts become actions, and your actions attract.
Standing in your integrity, being authentic and believing in who you are, valuing yourself, will create healthy boundaries. Healthy boundaries attract healthy situations, healthy relationships, and healthy environments.
If you second guess yourself, if you question what you are doing and maybe questioning the implications of your actions, you may find it challenging to keep your boundaries in place. You may wonder if you are being too difficult, you may wonder if you are being too high maintenance, or you may wonder if you are depriving yourself. Notice how you are feeling, notice what you are thinking and rethinking, and notice what you hear yourself saying about the stance you are taking. How you speak to yourself, reflects what you are feeling, and often it can be surprising what you hear yourself saying. Notice the reactions of others as well, and how you feel about their reactions. Your feelings become thoughts, your thoughts become actions and your actions attract.
If you feel compromised, it may be you are not valuing yourself, it may be that you are not believing in yourself, it may be that you are not honouring who you are, and trusting what you feel. If you don’t value yourself, how can others value you. If you don’t trust yourself, how can others trust you. If you don’t believe in yourself, how can others believe in you. If you don’t live a life that reflects who you are, how can your life to be what you want it to be. Believe in the life you are creating, believe in what you can achieve, and you will soon achieve it. Your feelings become thoughts, your thoughts become actions, and your actions attract.
Creating healthy boundaries will position you in the perfect place, at the perfect time, for the perfect situation to exist. Boundaries are there for connection. Boundaries are there to connect you to where you belong. Boundaries are there to connect you to the people you belong with. Boundaries are there to help you find what you belong doing.
Compromising your standards, your beliefs, your values, compromising yourself, will see you feeling discontent. If you find yourself feeling frustrated, think about what you have compromised. If you find yourself in situations that are making you uncomfortable, think about what you have compromised. If you find you have no patience, no tolerance, no compassion, think about what you have compromised. Choose to feel differently about you, so that you can attract the life you want to live. Be kind to yourself, so that you can be kind to others. Be compassionate about your circumstances, so that you can be compassionate with others.
Know the importance of who you are, know you are unique, only you have experienced what you have experienced through your eyes, only you can be you. Know the importance of what you do, you are the only one who can do what you do the way you do it.
When you believe in who you are, you can create the life you want to live. Knowing the importance of being you, your value, sets healthy boundaries and healthy boundaries connect you to where you belong. Once there, you will find what you are looking for.
Be inspired by who you are.
Mari.
