Learning to trust again when life doesn’t go to plan and things don’t work out the way you hoped, it can be difficult to believe in yourself, it can be difficult to believe in the life you are busy creating. When life doesn’t go to plan you can feel destroyed, distraught, it is distressing and can leave you questioning everything about what you believe and who you believe yourself to be. When life doesn’t go to plan and things don’t work out the way you thought they would it is difficult to trust. Learning to trust yourself again takes time, developing the belief in yourself again takes time and effort, there are powerful things you can do to get yourself back on track and bring your magic back to life, tools that remind you of who you are and give you back your lust for life.
Believing there is a purpose in whatever is happening will give you the strength…
Affirmations are very powerful, they can pull you out of feeling stuck, they can give you hope, they can change the way you see life, they help you talk yourself into believing in yourself and your life again. When you feel down on yourself, when you find yourself not liking who you are, reminding yourself that you are loveable, that you are loved will help you feel better. “I am” is a very powerful affirmation, reaffirming “I am loved, I am loveable, I am enough” as often as you find yourself thinking disheartening thoughts will help you start to believe in yourself again. Reaffirming “I am enough, I am worth it, I am good” will help you feel confident again, reaffirming “I am valued, I am valuable, I am enough” will help you feel your strengths are recognised, seeing your value restores your self worth. Affirmations can get you through difficult times in your life and help you believe in yourself again, reminding yourself of your value will give you the confidence to do what is right for you and begin to be empowered by life again. Whatever has left you feeling let down, disappointed or confused, using affirmations is a way you can pick yourself up and move on to feeling happier in the life you are living.
Finding the light in the dark and believing in life again when life has been particularly harsh is hard to do, developing the belief that there is always good amidst the bad and believing there is a divine design to life, a purpose to what is happening, will help you move through whatever you are finding difficult to comprehend. Believing there is a purpose in whatever is happening will give you the strength to continue building your life after events that shatter your belief in yourself, finding purpose in what you are doing will help you believe in yourself because you are who you believe yourself to be no matter what is life is presenting you with, you are still you. Learning to trust your journey is a journey in itself, experiencing hurt, disappointment or betrayal is also a part of this journey, when there is a lack of trust, doubt is created and if you are doubting yourself and doubting life can be any better, then it’s hard to see the opportunities that exist around you.
Trusting your life helps you see the real you…
Learning to trust life again will help you see they’re so much more available to you, so much more you can explore, potentials and possibilities that exist within you waiting to be discovered. Learning to trust yourself again will bring you back to you, the real you, the you, you know, the you, you believe in, the you you love. Seeing whatever life presents you with as an opportunity will remind you of what you love about you and this will help you trust yourself again and trust the life you are living too.
It is through trust, trusting the life you are living and the life you have lived, trusting and believing there is a reason you are experiencing what you are experiencing, will help you see the experience you are gaining. It is through trust, trusting your life again that helps you see the real you, the you who is equipped with all the skills, the talent, the ability to get you to where you want to go. It is through trust, trusting your life again that will give you back the belief in yourself so you can be who you believe yourself to be, so that you can be in the position you to be you want to be in. It is through trust, trusting your life again that will give you the belief that you are is exactly where you need to be to get to where you are going.
You are who you believe yourself to be and life is a journey in itself, a journey of discovery of self, see the an opportunities that surround you and explore who you are and you can be, even if life has left you disillusioned, you are still who you believe yourself to be and you have it within you to trust again. Learning to trust again takes time and effort but you’ll be rewarded with strength, the strength to be who you believe yourself to be, the strength to do what you see yourself doing, the strength to live the way you want to live.
Love life and life will love you back.
Mari.
