Your life is intertwined with meaning and purpose, everything that happens here has a purpose, it is an evolution of self, you are here to evolve. You gain experience through everything you go through, your life is not just a random set of circumstances, there is design to everything that happens and what shows up in your life is for the experience it gives you, this is your evolution.
You can let yourself off the hook, you can forgive yourself for the decisions you have made because each decision you made gifted you with valuable experience, see the value in what you have experienced. You can forgive others for the decisions they have made because their decisions gifted you with this valuable experience too. Each experience evolved you into who you are today, and you are still evolving, your life is still evolving and you will continue to evolve here until you take your last breath, then you will continue on to where your soul evolves to.
Every decision you make, every action you take, is for the experience it gives you, you gain a greater understanding through what you go through, which is why you go through it. You gain greater understanding of what it is to be you and what this existence is all about, gaining greater understand of who you are and what is important to you will help you navigate your way through the life you are living. What you do with each experience is up to you, how you how you perceive what happens in your life is up to you. Your perception creates your reality, it shapes the direction you move in, it shapes the action you take and the decisions you make. How you perceive what transpires determines what you do and compels you into action, think back to something that has happened, how you responded to what was happening shaped what happened next.
When you experience something that does not feel good, that is uncomfortable or hurtful, you have a choice about how perceive what is happening. Adjusting to new circumstances can be challenging, but it will give you a greater understanding of who you are and what you are about, of why you do what you do. Everything happens for a reason, the reason is the experience you gain through what you experiencing. How you experience what is transpiring is up to you, you can rise from the ashes, you can re-invent yourself through each experience, you create a life that reflects who you are and honours what is important to you. See the value in everything you experience because experience is valuable and your hardship will give you faith, faith in your abilities, faith in your endurance, faith in your resilience. Remember to have faith in your life, because this is the life you have incarnated into for the experience of living it.
It is your destiny to be true to you, to do what is right for you, this life is an amazing life, remember you are creating it through everything do and why you do what you do is for the experience it gives you. You won’t have it all figured out, you will take detours, you will feel disillusioned, but you will find you way back to where you belong and who belongs there with you. Don’t be afraid to be you, do what you belong doing because this is your life, this is what it is to be alive and this is why are here. This is your life, live it the way you want to live it, only you can be you, see your value and see the value in everything you experience here.
Love your life and life will love you back.