You are perfectly imperfect and you are exquisite in your imperfection. Imperfection is beauty, imperfection is art, imperfection is natural, life is perfectly imperfect. You are perfectly imperfect just the way you are and how you are right now is exactly how you are meant to be for this moment in time. You are perfectly imperfect and you are exquisite in your imperfect.
Accepting how you are, how you are feeling, where you are at and what is happening in your life, with all it’s imperfection, will give you a greater awareness of what is important to you and what is not, of what interests you and what has changed. Accepting where you are in life and what is happening will remind you of what excites you, what makes you tick, what seems easy and what is more challenging. Accepting where you are in life reminds you of what you love doing and what is less appealing, your life isn’t perfect, it’s full of imperfection, but you are exactly where you are meant to be. How you are feeling, what you are experiencing, is reminding you of what really matters, how you feel about what you are doing is an indication of what is right for you and what is not.
When you think about what you do with your time, what you spend most of your time doing, ask yourself is this is really want to be doing? When you think about what motivates you, what makes you tick, what excites you and why it excites you, what attracts you and why you find it attractive, ask yourself why you are not able to do more of this? There is a reason you are drawn to what you are drawn to, it gives you a glimpse into what you really want, there is a reason you want what you want, whether it is possible or not, it shows you where something may need to change. Everything you do evolves, you will evolve through what you experience today into who you will be tomorrow, life is a continual evolution and life is full of imperfection, it is it’s imperfection that makes it beautiful. You don’t have to be perfect, the pressure to be perfect, to do things perfectly, will stop you enjoying what you are doing and it can stop creating what you want to create, it can stop you becoming who you want to become.
When you love where you are at, when you appreciate what your life is showing you, you figure out what you want and if you want something different then follow where that takes you, you might just find where you belong. Life is not perfect but it is an adventure, see yourself as an adventurer and take the pressure off, you are on a quest to know yourself, allowing yourself to take detours, see these detours as valuable interactions, they are what makes life interesting. Allow yourself to be perfectly imperfect, you don’t have to conform to a narrative, or a particular culture or a scene, you can be exactly how you are, you can live the way you want to live. Allow yourself to be perfectly imperfect and and you will be happier with who you are, because who you are here in this moment is exactly who you are meant to be. Who you are is exactly what is needed in whatever situation you are in which is why you are there, you are contributing to what is going on, the situation is evolving and so are you, you are a part of something more. There is always a bigger picture and what you are doing matters, you are contributing to what is going on, when you allow yourself to love who you are and where you are at, you have the confidence to get through any situation and everything you experience is for the experience of it.
Get to know yourself, trust the way you experience your life, trust your perfectly imperfect way of being, because only you are you and only you do what you do, the way you do it. Trust your life has a purpose because it does, there is a reason for your existence and it is unfolding, it will continue to unfold. See the adventure your life is, see the adventure in what you are creating because you are in a continuously creating, when you feel the excitement of what you are doing, you are empowered to do what is right for you, what sits with you. You have a glimpse of what is possible, embrace what life is showing you as you are evolving into who you will become and your life is evolving full of imperfection, it’s ok if you are imperfect too.
Allowing yourself to be perfectly imperfect in your life will give you the freedom to want what you want, to be who you know you are, to find where you belong. Let’s face it, we are all seeking belonging, finding where you belong, finding who belongs there with you and finding what you belong doing, is what life is all about. Life is full of imperfection, imperfection is art, you are a work of art, you are perfectly imperfect and you are exquisite in your imperfection.
Love life and life will love you back.
Mari.