Your relationship with yourself is the most powerful relationship in your life, how you feel about yourself influences the choices you make in life, how you feel about yourself can keep you from living the life you really want, from believing you can be who you want to be. Your relationship with yourself influences how you behave, how you interact with people, how you interact with your family, with your partner, with your colleagues, with your friends, it is the relationship that determines all others. Your relationship with yourself influences your perception of the life you are living, it is your relationship with yourself that determines how you see the world. How you feel about who you are, what you do and how you live is so important, your relationship with yourself is the most powerful relationship in your life.
You are powerful when stand in your truth, standing in your truth requires honesty and you have to be honest with yourself to honour who you are, how you feel about yourself influences everything else in your life. Being authentically you will make a difference in your life, doing what is right for you, what sits with you, will make a difference in your life. You can make the difference, you are the only person that can change your life, so if you want things to change, believe in yourself, believe you have the power to create change, your relationship with yourself is so very important.
When you believe in yourself you feel worthy of love, worthy of joy, worthy of laughter, when you believe in yourself you feel powerful. You feel like you can achieve you aspire to more, when you feel like you have something to offer, to give the world, you aspire to more, when you feel you feel you are worthy of a life you adore, you aspire to more. Your relationship with yourself is the most important relationship in your life and it is this relationship you should focus on first.
Self-talk is what you say to yourself, your inner dialogue, how you talk to yourself matters, your inner talk influences your self belief, what you believe about yourself defines how you feel about the life you are living. Cultivating a better relationship with yourself is self care, you can change how you feel about yourself by becoming aware of your inner dialogue, and changing the way you talk to yourself. You may have an inner critic you’d like to silence, you may have limiting beliefs that hold you back from doing what you really want to do, you may need to remind yourself you have what it takes, you are good enough, you are who you think you are. You may have self doubts that keep you from being who you know you can be and you may need to remind yourself that it is ok to be yourself, that you are perfect just the way you are. You may not like your body, you may feel like it is betraying you and you may need to remind yourself that this is the body your soul has chosen to embody, it is what carries you through life and it is remarkable in what it achieves everyday, you are beautiful just the way you are. Becoming aware of how you are talking to yourself will help you identify what is holding you back, will help you determine what you need to work on so you believe in yourself again. Who you believe yourself to be can sometimes be defined by what you think is expected of you and sometimes the expectations of others isn’t what you think it is. How you feel about yourself can hold you back from finding your tribe, the people who celebrate who you are and empower you to believe in yourself. People are attracted to you by who you are, by your vibration, by how you interact with them, by how you carry yourself. If you are not being real, they can’t see the real you, if you are not surrounded by people who don’t see you, maybe you aren’t being honest with yourself about who you believe yourself to be. When you try to be be someone other than who you are, on some level people sense this, and you can get caught up into trying to fit in where you don’t fit, where you don’t belong. Don’t just exist in your life, create a life that communicates what you are about, that expresses your truth so you find where you belong. Finding where you belong and who belongs there with you is up to you, only you can change your life by believing in yourself, by believing in the life you are living.
There is a love of life that exists within you, it is what you draw upon it find what you love doing, is what you draw upon it find people you love being with and is what you draw upon it to find where you belong. This is how you are meant to live, by seeing the adventure your life is, your life will present you with the opportunity to create a life you love living by just being you, this is what life is all about.
Love yourself and believe in yourself, this is what will determine how you interact with life, your relationship with yourself will give you confidence to be yourself because when you believe in who you are and what you are about you see the beauty that exists in you and around you. You see your beauty, you see your beauty in others, you see your value, you see your value in others, you see who you are and you see who they are, when you are yourself, others see you too. Believe in your life, believe in your value, believing in yourself so find where you belong and know you are here because this is exactly where you need to be.
Love your life and life will love you back.
Mari
